The Rogue Not Taken


😊 I met someone and I have been calling him My Guy in my previous post. I decided that it’s time to write about him because I have been very happy with him.

I met My Guy on a dating app. Curiously, I didn’t see his photo but I read his profile and what he wrote about himself, appealed to me.

After a few days of texting, we started calling each other. Soon after, video calls ensued. We talked on a daily basis and got to know each other better.

A month passed, two months, three months and now we have plans to meet 90 days from now. More or less, in February 2020. God willing, it will be.

I don’t entirely know what the future holds for both of us but I’m certain of what we have and it is real, true and enduring. I am grateful for him. My Guy is not perfect but he gets me. He makes me smile, laugh and inspire me to be a better person.

For now, I’m doing my best to be patient over the distance between us. I also like and appreciate the lengths we both go to make sure we get to communicate with each other and keep this relationship going strong.

In the meantime, this Rogue is spoken for. πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’™πŸ’š

The Weekly Challenge

Butterfly Pea tea for me!

My bestfriend Jen and I started a weekly challenge. Since we are now in our forties, we have had a child, gained new men in our lives and gained more weight than we both wanted.

So last week, we both gave up rice.

It was not an easy task for either of us because we both love to eat but we did what we had to do.

A week has passed and yesterday, I gave up soda.

This week, no rice and no soda for me. Everything else is game, though. Now, I don’t know if this weekly challenge will even be that effective. So far, I feel the same and no major changes have occurred.

So when I do pass this challenge this week, then I shall continue doing without those two for the rest of the year!

You might wonder if I plan to give up something new next week and the answer is no. I do want to lose weight but I don’t want to lose my zest for food.

So, here’s to getting a slimmer me!